Sunday, August 22, 2010
I don't get it when guys freak out, I really don't. For the longest time (measured in years), D wasn't ready for me to meet all his "people". And then all of the sudden, in the past month or so, I've finally been able to put faces to names, and he didn't act like it was a big deal. And then when I suggest we have dinner with a friend of mine? He gets all slippery, like, "Oh, you just have fun. Don't worry about me." What the eff? Does he not want to meet my people? Is he just nervous? Does he think that I don't really mean it, or that I just feel obligated to reciprocate? He's so important to me, and I'm dying for everyone to finally get to know him. Why won't he just go with it - why does he have to make it into a thing? Argh.
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i've never gotten it either. I've kind of lucked out with that for the moment.
ReplyDelete& I expect to be the except to this rule of his pretty damn soon.
When it came up again, he said, "I really do want to meet your friends. Absolutely. But I want to meet them when I'm at my most charming." (He's been feeling sickish.)
ReplyDeleteSo there's that, I guess. Postpone until December, the next time we will be together.
I totally want to meet him! At the moment I'm not sure how long I'll be home at any given point, which is really sad for me. Mostly because I want to see people like you & T & N & everyone I love. I wish it was somewhere I could fly home to or the weekend. But in my current state of debt, it's just silly to think to do that.
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